With the recent publication of crime statistics for 2003 by the Colorado Bureau of Investigation I have been able to update the demographics of domestic violence in the state legal system. We now have archival court data for the years 1998 through 2003 and some clear trends are evident.  With regard to domestic violence, Colorado is a bellwether state, having introduced some of the earliest laws requiring mandatory arrest, "no drop" prosecution, combined with "primary aggressor" (arrest the male) statutes. Further, in Colorado restraining orders are permanent, as in the rest of one's life, whereas in most other states such orders have a finite duration of one or two years.

      One frightening trend is the extraordinary increase in the issuance of restraining orders as shown:



    Also, in 2003 court cases for criminal domestic violence increased 5% to 16,159, yet domestic violence incidents reported to police decreased 2% to 7,108 (Table 49) from the previous year. No public official I have spoken with has been able to explain why or how there are more than twice as many DV criminal cases in court than DV incidents reported to the police, nor how the police incidents can be going down while the number of DV court cases is rapidly increasing.

     One surprising trend became clear in 2003. Divorce filings in Colorado courts have consistently decreased from 63 per 10,000 citizens in 1999 to 56 per 10,000 in 2003 (Table 53). It might reasonably be expected that with restraining order filings and domestic violence cases increasing at an extraordinary rate that divorces should also be increasing. To find that isn't happening was puzzling.

     An obvious way to avoid a divorce is not to marry in the first place.

     For most of the fifty-plus years between 1950 and 2002, the marriage rate in Colorado averaged around 100 per 10,000 citizens per year but has been steadily declining since 1994.

    One might reasonably suspect that increases in restraining orders and DV charges have a depressing affect on men's willingness to marry. These relations are clear in the following plot:



     The divorce rate then appears to be declining because there are fewer couples getting married. And in 2003 the marriage and restraining order rates appear to intersect although additional data, as always, are desirable.

     Clearly, the implication is that as charges of domestic violence and abuse increase, the number of marriages declines. That finding agrees with common sense. Marriages are built on trust and a restraining order or DV allegation destroys any trust in one's partner.

      There are, of course, many other factors contributing to the decline of marriage in today's society, e.g., the easy availability of sex without getting married. Women also blame men, as usual, for having a fear of commitment. But it is a rare man today who has not been caught up in the nightmare of a divorce, allegations of domestic violence, a restraining order, or faced charges of sexual harassment; or at least has a close friend, co-worker, parent, sibling, or other relative who has been through the horror of our present "legal" system.

      With the rate of restraining orders exceeding the marriage rate, does anyone think our society can long survive under these laws and practices?

      If unsupported allegations of domestic violence and abuse can be freely made in divorce and custody disputes with the law strongly favoring the female, then a man has to be functionally insane to marry and a drooling idiot to sire a child.

      By not marrying, and using modern birth control methods, our best and brightest largely avoid the nightmares our family laws and courts have become. As a result, family laws in Colorado have become a breeding experiment in stupidity.

Charles E. Corry, Ph.D., F.G.S.A.

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